~ Healing for the Dead.~
The Mahabharat has an intriguing episode titled “Questions of Yaksha”, where to drink water from a pond, the Pandavas has to answer the questions of Yaksha, the Guardian of the water body. Only Yudhisthira the eldest brother manages to answer, thus saving his brothers from certain death.
Yaksha: O Yudhisthira! What is the greatest wonder of all?
Yudhisthira: Thousands die every day, yet we still live as though we’d live forever!
Death is the final taboo in common parlance. We seldom talk about it, even if it is at our doorstep. We not only pretend we will never die, but also out loved ones. Those at final stages of lives, suffer the most due to the marked absence of conversation around death in modern times. They don’t get stay goodbye, have closures, we keep trying the behest of modern medicine to outlast.
Pre-death rituals are now unheard of. Earlier it is used to be an important rite of passage. Celebrating the freedom from mortal coil. These days most people die in Grihast Ashram, the stage of householder, living the families. Gone are the days of Vanprashtra (Forest Retreat) or Sanyaas (Renunciation).
People no longer spend end days of their lives in contemplation and prayer. We cling to life as much as to our mortal relations and material wealth. There are some who still retreat to religious places, like Varanasi during last days. Or listening to holy scriptures or name of Lord.
But can we offer any healing for our deceased loved ones? Is there anything else we can do that offering prayers and elaborate ceremonies?
The answer is again yes.
The dead reveal a lot. When contacted they offer perspective only a soul can have. They guide those left behind for their betterment. Many people who come for Regression sessions see their grandparents as guides. May of the deceased stay in touch through dreams. So many people contact us, after having repeated dream of their deceased parents.
Helping Souls cross over into the Light
Then there is healing for loved once beyond death. Many people want to check whether their loved ones have crossed over successfully and are at peace. Sometimes a family member gets a disturbing dream involving them, turns out the deceased person has not crossed over due to some unfinished business or excessive attachment or concern of family left behind. Like a young mother worries for her two kids orphaned by her sudden death, clings to the earth plane. That too requires healing, so that they can peaceful cross over into the light.
Sometimes healing helps those have painful ailments in the final passage. So, with healing we can unload the soul of the heaviness and negative emotions, and sadness this lifetime.
Connecting with Loved ones in Heaven
Sometimes we have requests from people who want to connect with their deceased loved ones. Due unfinished sentences and undecipherable words said towards the end.
So, if guides allow, we take them into meditation and they connect. Most people are able to connect and have closure. Say things they could share. But we have to first connect with our spiritguides to check whether they are ready to connect or not.
One lady from Lucknow, asked her father what did he mean when he said in his delirium that a black woman is trying to kill him! What revealed was nothing short of shocking, he told that his sister-in-law has been doing Black magic on the family. Interestingly as his younger brother who previously suffering Hepatitis C started get better, he started get worse of same ailment, and when the younger brother was cure, he died. He further shared, where all in the bodies of the family members black magic is stored. Surprisingly those every body parts, heart, stomach and knees, they were have suffering for not diagnosable cause or treatment possible. With the help of spirit guides the black magic was removed, and family got better.
But sometimes this access is denied, like son who wanted to find who murdered his mother, a property dealer in Ghaziabad, few years ago. In a dramatic session, the Mother said, “If I tell you, you will murder that person and you will go in jail. Leaving my daughter in law and granddaughter will be orphaned.” She refused. Later the guides told him, that the people who killed her, had been killed by her in a previous lifetime. Thus, both mother and son found peace.
Surprisingly lot of people find, that their loved ones don’t really change, just because they have left their body. Their personalities remain more or less the same, along with our quirks. Growth as we know happens best on the earth plane. People don’t become saint just because they have passed away. One time, a woman was unable to catch the message her deceased sister was trying to give. Soon the sister got annoyed and left. Later the woman admitted that the sweet sister was bit impatient on this in real life as well.
Healing is wholeness, any stage of life or death, we can add light to our lives and that our loved ones. Often an intention is often and belief. Avoiding the notion that life exists beyond death, only makes our life limited, unidimensional. Know thy self, while you are alive.
Those who have experienced Past Life Regression Therapy know that to leave a dying body in past life is always a welcome relief for the soul. It will be in this life as well. Do no fear. Help is at hand. As we die, we are surrounded by ancestors and spiritguides who come to fetch us. And Angels accompany us back home.