AS YOU GO DEEPER INTO the healing arts you realise that many of the problems arise not from our past but the collective past of the family tree we have been born into – the family constellation. We inherit not just the good fortunes but also its karmas and curses. There is always a karmic resonance; we step into an ailing family tree to clear our karma and learn life lessons which are pending from the past.
Family soul group grows collectively as we have seen them suffering from similar health, work or relationship issues. An ailing Family tree is easy to spot. We just need have to look across generations to find continuing patterns of ill health, misfortunes, disputes, relationship or martial blocks, problems in conception or mishaps. Anything that seems to be coming from generations above the current one constitutes a family tree issue. This is when the souls, ancestors and guides need to be contacted and family deities invoked, to seek help.
We do not know what we cannot see. Same goes for the psychic element in Family Tree healing. Though there are many methods are used, like psycho-drama and pujas, but in our work we have seen these are not as effective as when connect the souls directly who have been harmed, sometimes five or six generations ago.
In a case, a soul was ‘harming’ the family tree for 350 years; which they called ‘Pret’. Most men in the family didn’t live past their 40s. Even visits to the famous Balaji Temple in Rajasthan didn’t give much relief. First that soul needed to be healed and his life reprogrammed, to the original trajectory. This allowed the soul to have a closure, find everlasting peace and drop the curse.
Another family tree has all brothers and their families facing multiple road accidents, leading to leg deformities and financial issues. During the session, we found out that in a past life, the grandfather was a doctor and ran a hospital right next to a highway. Here much of the current family was also employed. They all ran a racket by over-charging and mistreating emergency patients with hasty amputations and stealing organs, which lead to a lot of miseries to accident victims. Incidentally, the family member who came for healing found that she was nurse in that hospital. Gradually, all the victim souls, over twenty in this case, were called to the healing plane. Some were even missing body parts, especially arms and legs. They wanted the entire family to experience the same misery and financial hardship that they had undergone. Next, all the victim and perpetrator souls came face to face and the healing with forgiveness. Eventually the souls were ready to forgive, drop curses and cross into the light.
In another story, a family tree where in every generation people were either suffering or dying of kidney and heart problems in their 50s. This was traced to the great grandfather, as these symptoms showed up only in the generation following him. It turned out, he had an affair before marriage, and the girl of 17 or18 years got pregnant. Though, she resigned to the fact that the marriage wasn’t possible as the two were from different religions, but still she wanted to have the child. Alas, she was given slow poison and died of organ failure, seven months pregnant. Her curse made the whole Family tree generations after generation suffering High BP, blood sugar and kidney issues. Her soul fragment was attached to the woman who came for the Family tree healing and who wasn’t able to conceive even many years after marriage. It was her husband’s soul who was the servant in that life, who bought and gave the poison to the hapless girl.
Sometimes ancestors and perpetrator souls aren’t willing to participate in the healing, they need to be counselled first. And also made aware of their crimes so that they can ask for forgiveness. Some souls aren’t willing to admit to their dark side or their past crimes. Some even try to make it appear small. This makes the presence of an alert therapist-psychic an asset. As first the victim soul needs to be healed, only then forgiveness can happen, that too when they are ready to forgive and move on. No force or coercion can be used. Only compassionate listening and an empathetic response can help these souls. Often souls heal just by hearing the confession of their perpetrators, repentance and apologies.
Finally, the woman was healed and she dropped all her curses. In a surprising move, she apologised to the woman who wasn’t able to conceive, “I didn’t want to harm you directly, but I knew only you in this family had enough light to take the initiative of healing one day…” Interestingly no one else in the family believes much in alternative healing.
Thereafter, the family tree was given another round of healing, but the guides said, they will have to clear whatever karma they are individually carrying, yet future generations are free from the family tree curse. If the family learns the lesson of compassion, and drops greed they would grow as a group or fall deeper into darkness.
Often the very person, who had cursed a family tree, comes back to back to the same family, many generations later to free them of the curse. A curse after all is a karmic choice no matter what the provocation and hence has consequences. It is amazing to see how souls journey across lifetimes to learn their lessons and experience the karmic consequences.
Common causes for Family tree blocks and sufferings including, murders, property usurping, women mistreated, abused or denied rights. Often even their names are written off from the family tree. Leading to financial difficulties across generations, as women are the repository of family abundance, that is why she has been traditionally called ‘Grih-lakshmi’. Sometimes when a special child or a girl child is killed; it adds to the bad karma of the Family tree which then travels across generations, leading to miscarriages and conception problems. In short, be aware, no gets away with anything, not even you. If not yourself, stay humble for your future generations and lifetimes.
It is always fascinating for me and Priyanka as facilitators to see healing unfold, family secrets spilling out. It is especially poignant to watch souls find closure and gain peace after generations of wait, for their pain and suffering to be acknowledge and healed. It gives us immense satisfaction as healers, to help clear the roots of the Family tree and watch it regain it’s original splendour. To become healthy and prosperous once again.